Josh Duhamel and wife Audra Mari attend the LA premiere of “Palm Trees and Power Lines” in March 2023.Photo:Rodin Eckenroth/Getty Images

Josh Duhamel Celebrates First Wedding Anniversary with ‘Amazing’ Wife Audra Mari

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Josh Duhamelhas a lot to celebrate.

Days after his firstwedding anniversarywith his wifeAudra Marion Sept. 10 — and on the heels that the two areexpecting their first child together— the actor, 50, appeared onLive with Kelly and Markand opened up about how their romance, which they’ve kept largely private, began.

“I slid into her DMs,” Duhamel on Wednesday revealed of the pageant queen, who is also from his home state of North Dakota.

TheShotgun Weddingstar said he known of Mari, 29, before writing her. “She’d won some pageants and stuff," he said. “I root for people who do really well for North Dakota, because there’s not really many of us and I really root for them.”

Duhamel admitted he “didn’t think” that romance would necessarily be in the cards when he first started talking to Mari because he’s “a fair amount older than she is." But that changed when he met her in person.

“I invited her over to a BBQ one weekend and she came and I was like, ‘Wow, you’re beautiful,' " Duhamel recalls.

Josh Duhamel and Audra Mari announced they are expecting their first child together in an Instagram post on Monday.Josh Duhamel/Instagram; Pascal Le Segretain/Getty

Josh Duhamel and Wife Audra Mari Expecting First Baby

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“Lots of exciting things happening over at the Duhamel house.” he told hostsKelly RipaandMark Consuelos,

Ripa told him that it sounded like he was “maybe potentially…looking for a wife” without knowing it, prompting the actor to reflect on finding love after hisseparationfrom the singer, 48, in 2017.

“I think sometimes when you’re looking for it, you don’t find it. But it happens when you least expect it. And that was the case for us,” Duhamel said. “She just sorta smacked me upside the head when she walked in the room. I was like, ‘Whoa. I can’t… No… Well maybe, I can?’ "

He added of their romance, which they didn’t officially confirm until 2020: “But it was a really slow sort of a burn. We started dating, went on a few dates, and it slowly got, it turned into a beautiful thing.”

Josh Duhamel Celebrates First Wedding Anniversary with ‘Amazing’ Wife Audra Mari

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Duhamel and Mari announced they were expecting their first child on Monday. In the wake of the news,Fergie expressed nothing but supportin a comment on the couple’s joint Instagram post.

“I am truly happy for you guys 🥰🥰,” the singer wrote on the post. “Axl can’t wait to be a big brother,”

Josh Duhamel, Fergie, and Axel Jack Duhamel attend Pandora Summer Crush in 2016.Jonathan Leibson/Getty

Josh Duhamel, Fergie, and their son, Axel Jack Duhamel attend Pandora Summer Crush in 2016

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Duhamel and Mari’s pregnancy news didn’t come as much of a surprise, as a source previously told PEOPLE that both of them areinterested in expanding their family.

In 2022, an insider close to Mari told PEOPLE that she would “love to have kids with Josh,” and said that she’s “very sweet, caring and close with her family.”

At the time, she was “getting to know” Axl, who Duhamel is “very protective” of, the source added.

Around the same time, a source said the actor has“always” wanted more kids, and “loved being a father.”

source: people.com